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About Julie Lysiak RN, MS, CS
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Julie
Lysiak is a child and adolescent psychiatric clinical nurse specialist
who specializes in psychopharmacology. She worked as a registered nurse
for seven years before getting her Masters in Nursing from Northeastern
University. She has worked with children in a variety of setting
including the inpatient psychiatric unit at Children’s Hospital in
Boston, the Adolescent Continuing Care Unit at Westborough State
Hospital, and currently at the Devereux School in Rutland, MA. She has
extensive experience working with children with a variety of mental
health issues ranging from mood disorders, autism spectrum disorders,
eating disorders, and substance abuse. She enjoys getting to know each
individual child and their families in order to provide individualized
treatment and recommendations. |
- Psychopharmacology
- Behavior Management
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Parents
need to educate themselves about the unique pressures that impact
teenagers today. These range from such things as peer pressure,
commercialism, societal messages, parental messages, and the challenges
facing our nation and the world as a whole. Parents who develop
strategies early on in their child’s life to communicate and support
them during times of stress have the highest likelihood of having
children who are able to resist the pressures involved in substance
abuse.
1. Create a safe, supportive environment in which
discussions regarding alcohol and drug abuse can take place. Start this
when your children are young. Talking about it will not make them want
to use it more. They will learn about drugs one way or the other and it
will serve them much better to hear about it from you first.
2.
Connect with your teen to find out what they already know, how they
feel, and what pressures they are already facing. Don’t assume they
already know or that they will get all of the information that they
need from school or TV. The world that we live in today has raised the
bar as far as the amount of stress that we are all living under. Teens
aren’t immune to this. It you are worrying about something, chances are
that they are worrying about it as well.
Rather than telling
them to “Just Say No”, teach them about the harmful effects and the
consequences that they can expect. Don’t talk down to them. Speak to
them in the same manner that you would to anyone to whom it is
important to get your message across. Listen to their questions,
concerns, objections. If they are resistant or dismissive of the
information, back it up with research.
3. Communicate clearly
what your expectations are and what the consequence of use will be
should this occur in your family. Evidence consistently shows that the
rates of alcohol and drug use are lowest in families where parents set
clear expectations and who follow through with discipline when rules
are broken. Young people need guidance in setting realistic goals and
expectations for themselves. If you do not share your expectations
regarding substance abuse with your children, they will concoct their
own. |
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